Friday, November 19, 2010

Love

Love is such a strong emotion and it invokes so many feelings. Love is often a very over used word too. We "love" a new song or a pair of shoes, that's not real love, that's just a strong amount of like. You see to me and in my life love is much stronger then anything I could feel for shoes. Its a passion that makes everything more magnified and so much stronger. Love means fighting over stupid things and getting angry with each other but it also means getting over those feelings quickly. It means crying over stupid things because your so emotionally charged. This has really hit me lately because it seems Mr. B and I get into arguments over the stupidest things lately and a lot of it is because I love him so much and want him to be home. This darn distance is really a big pain in my back-end because it means I can't come home to him everyday, and it sometimes means things get misinterpreted. Cell phones and text messaging is great don't get me wrong but its easy to read or hear things the wrong way. So just remember that no matter what may happen during the day having someone to come home to, email, call or text every night is amazing and to know that they will always be there for you. It blows my mind sometimes to just stop and remember that Mr. B loves me so much he promised to spend the rest of his life with me! Makes you feel pretty special :)

Thursday, November 18, 2010

A little about us

Hello everyone! Most of you who are reading this probably know Mr. B and I but just in case you don't I'll give you a little background on us and explain why I named this blog what I did. Mr. B and I met in high school at the county show our junior year. I was showing cattle and he was showing goats. My heifers were pushing me back and forth while fighting over each others food( even though it was the same) and he came over and asked if I needed help. I said no but we struck up a conversation from there. The rest you might say is history. Here we are now almost 5 years from that fateful day and we're happily married and living our fairytale life. No its not the perfect life I thought I wanted when I was younger but I've come to realize that nothing is perfect and our life especially isn't but its perfect for us. You see this is my fairytale life because I'm married to my hero, who may have not been a knight but he sure is my hero. Mr. B doesn't wear shining armor but desert or woodland camis depending on the season and sometimes if I'm really lucky he wears his dress blues. Mr. B is a Marine, and I'm so proud of him for that.I'm certainly not a princess but a simple farm girl who is trying to become a nurse. Another thing that wasn't part of my fairytale life was being a military wife, I watched my sister when I was younger and saw everything she went through as an Army wife and knew that wasn't the life for me, but here I am. You see I'm a military wife because I love my husband so much that it will be okay for four years. Its never fun to have someone else to run your life and tell you when you can have your husband home but its only for a short time. I'm living my fairytale because I'm married to the man of my dreams and I know at some point in the near future we will be living in the same state again and the a little further down the road baby B may come along. Hope I didn't bore you too much with our little story. One thing I want to say is be sure and remember even though you may not think your life is a fairytale I bet if you take a second look you'll realize it really is, it just may be a different one then you originally thought you wanted.